Relationship Goals: Things To Consider

At some point in your relationship, you must have been like "Where would this lead to?", "What are we going to be in about 6 months or 1 year from now?" Questions such as the aforementioned are essential in building and keeping your relationship.

Relationship goals are necessary to keep you love affair alive and successful. Most times, it takes more than money, good looks and a great body to keep your relationship alive.

                

This is an opinionated piece on some things to consider when drafting a relationship goal.

Expectation Creates Room For Disappointment.

You go into a new relationship expecting certain things. Mostly, they are things you enjoyed or missed in your previous relationship. These things takes various forms; constant communication, quality sex, financial security, attention amongst others. Unconsciously, you're always on the lookout for these things, which leaves you disappointed when they are lacking in your relationship.

Be flexible

Are you familiar with the phrase, "Live life one step at a time"? Yes, that should be the motto of your relationship. Enjoy each moment with your partner. No two humans are the same, so don't ruin the chance of a great relationship by expecting too much from your spouse!

No, I'm not asking that you should be blind to reality and eat whatever junk is served on your plate. No-No!

Be HAPPY.

I spoke with a number of girls who told me they just want to happy. Now that should be the core of your life/relationship goal! The first rule of Love says; Love Thyself! Even the Holy Scripture got my back on this one; Love thy neighbor as you love yourself. In essence, you're not capable of loving someone if you don't love yourself.

Love Yourself and be Happy!

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